==Trying To Get Pregnant==
For some it is easy. They decide it's the right time and they are quickly pregnant. But for most people it takes at least a year of actively trying to conceive. That means lots of early nights and no washing your hair :)
Once you’ve decided Some of us are not that lucky and after a year of trying (and trying hard) you take yourself along to try for a babyyour GP. He will ask you lots of embarrassing questions, are you having regular periods, have you got an active happy sex life (No, I just thought it might happen without lol),and is all your partner ejaculating ( most people need to conceivemen wince at that question).
After trying actively for one year and having answered these questions reluctantly your GP will probably refer you to a fertility specialist at the hospital for some basic fertility tests.
[http://www.wikimum.co.uk/index.php?title=Fertility_Testing Basic Tests]
===Monthly Fertility Cycle===
To understand a woman’s monthly fertility cycle can be helpful. But there is no need to try to time sex around your cycle and particularly around ovulation. Trying to do this can be stressful, and being stressed may mean you have less sex. It’s simply easier to not wash your hair or say you have headache, and enjoy yourself every 2-3 days.
To understanding a woman’s monthly fertility cycle can be helpful. But there’s no need to try to time sex around your cycle. It’s better to simply to have sex often throughout the month. If you’re hoping to get pregnant, having Having sex every two or three days throughout the month will give you the best chance, as it gives the sperm an opportunity to mature and not dwindle away.
You don’t need I bought every test going to time sex around help find out when ovulation. Trying to do this can be stressful, and being was which just stressed may mean you have less sexme out even more. “Some people buy special Taking my temp before I got up in a morning or urinating on ovulation kitspredictor sticks in an afternoon, or use basal temperature charts, to try to monitor when they’re ovulating,”“But temperature charts can be hard to keep and aren’t always reliable. Both kits and charts can cause unnecessary anxiety without being was all too much use.But After all this is your choice to maketiming and testing the last thing I wanted on a night was sex. “Knowing your exact day of ovulation is only useful if So for me I would advocate enjoying sex as much as you want to time intercourse can and trying to keep the day. Aim for less stress and more fun. After all, it should be down to a happy timeminimum.”
Having said that, knowing your exact day of ovulation can be useful if you want to time intercourse to the day, if, for example, your partner works away or you have a busy life/work schedule.
===How Long To Get Pregnant===
Nine out of Ten couples under 35 will become pregnant after a year of trying.
If you have had problems in the past with ectopic pregnancy or surgery that could effect fertility or are or 35, or are just like me with Thyroid issues or non existent periods due to having PCOS please seek help sooner.
More information can be found at [http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/Fertility/Pages/Getpregnant.aspx/ NHSDIRECT]
If you’ve been trying for a year or more and have not become pregnant, see your GP. Your GP can do tests to help identify possible fertility problems, and provide advice on the next steps. If you have had problems in the past with eptopic pregnancy or surgery that could effect fertility or are or 35, please seek help sooner. --[[User:Kerryflump|Kerryflump]] ([[User talk:Kerryflump|talk]]) 21[[File:Kerryflump.jpg|64px|link=User:Kerryflump|Kerryflump]] 19:5805, 29 30 April 2013 (UTC)