Mad Margaret at 13:33, 2 September 2013

2013-09-02T13:33:08Z

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2013-09-01T20:23:10Z

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== Teresal's View ==

=== Sex after Children ===

Well I never thought I would ever be having sex again after the birth of my daughter, I bled a lot and for a long time after so wasn’t even a possibility at first, once things settled down I think we had gotten into a bit of a rut and found it difficult to get started again.

We were constantly tired and just seemed to fall into bed at the end of each day and go to sleep, sleep at that time was far more important than anything else. My husband and I were the same so it wasn’t as though one wanted sex and the other wasn’t.

After several months (probably 3 months) our daughter was in more of a routine and going to bed at 6.30pm, this was giving us more time just as a couple and the affection started to come back, the odd cuddle on the sofa or a quick kiss on the way past but it was probably another month before we started having sex again, it did feel like an effort at first but once I got into it, it was fine.

I wouldn’t say we were doing it regularly at all just as and when we got time or could be bothered, our daughter has now just turned 3 and I wouldn’t say that even now we have sex regularly but we do make time for each other and sometimes it’s just nice to cuddle up together.

I suppose the outcome of this is that there is no right or wrong in having sex after children as long as you as a couple are happy with it. I certainly wouldn’t have been happy if my husband had been putting pressure on my after the birth.

Enjoy some special time as a couple and things will happen naturally.

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 === Sex after Children ===
-Well I never thought I would ever be having sex again after the birth of my daughter, I bled a lot and for a long time after so wasn’t even a possibility at first, once things settled down I think we had gotten into a bit of a rut and found it difficult to get started again.
+Well I never thought I would ever be having sex again after the birth of my daughter. I bled a lot and for a long time after, so it wasn’t even a possibility at first. Once things settled down I think we had gotten into a bit of a rut and found it difficult to get started again.
-We were constantly tired and just seemed to fall into bed at the end of each day and go to sleep, sleep at that time was far more important than anything else. My husband and I were the same so it wasn’t as though one wanted sex and the other wasn’t.
+We were constantly tired and just seemed to fall into bed at the end of each day and go to sleep - sleep at that time was far more important than anything else. My husband and I were the same, so it wasn’t as though one wanted sex and the other didn't.
-After several months (probably 3 months) our daughter was in more of a routine and going to bed at 6.30pm, this was giving us more time just as a couple and the affection started to come back, the odd cuddle on the sofa or a quick kiss on the way past but it was probably another month before we started having sex again, it did feel like an effort at first but once I got into it, it was fine.
+After several months (probably 3 months) our daughter was in more of a routine and going to bed at 6.30pm, which gave us more time just as a couple and the affection started to come back -  the odd cuddle on the sofa or a quick kiss on the way past. But it was probably another month before we started having sex again, and although it did feel like an effort at first once we got into it, it was fine.
-I wouldn’t say we were doing it regularly at all just as and when we got time or could be bothered, our daughter has now just turned 3 and I wouldn’t say that even now we have sex regularly but we do make time for each other and sometimes it’s just nice to cuddle up together.
+I wouldn’t say we were doing it regularly at all, just as and when we got time or could be bothered. Our daughter has now just turned 3 and I wouldn’t say that even now we have sex regularly, but we do make time for each other and sometimes it’s just nice to cuddle up together.
-I suppose the outcome of this is that there is no right or wrong in having sex after children as long as you as a couple are happy with it. I certainly wouldn’t have been happy if my husband had been putting pressure on my after the birth.
+I suppose the outcome of this is that there is no right or wrong in having sex after children as long as you as a couple are happy with it. I certainly wouldn’t have been happy if my husband had been putting pressure on me after the birth.
 Enjoy some special time as a couple and things will happen naturally.

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Mad Margaret at 13:33, 2 September 2013

Teresal: Created page with "== Teresal's View == === Sex after Children === Well I never thought I would ever be having sex again after the birth of my daughter, I bled a lot and for a long time after ..."